At its best, lingerie boosts sex appeal by making the wearer both look and feel hot. At its worst it can be uncomfortable both physically and emotionally, that’s right, lingerie makes the wearer vulnerable, which can be extremely sexy as long as the wearer is comfortable. But what is it exactly that draws men to the idea of their partner all wrapped up in lace? What to men hear when women walk out wearing their sexiest negligee? We have some answers for you.
Yes
More than anything else lingerie says, “Yes.” These are wonderful foreplay garments regardless of how frequent the sexual interactions in your relationship are. For couples who have less frequent intimacy, lingerie takes out the guess work. When you slip on “something more comfortable” men hear YES let’s have sex loud and clear.
Go ahead and Look
Lingerie is a billboard saying: “go ahead and devour me with your eyes.” While an “in the dark, under the covers romp” is sometimes fun, lingerie is all about looking! There is no worry about not making eye contact or staring to long. Men love getting to soak up every inch of those sexy barely covered curves.
I’m Yours
When you slip into your favorite sexy nightie men know you aren’t dressing up like that for anyone other than them and that you are doing it simply for their enjoyment. When you put on lingerie you are in essence showing him you are sexually interested in him, which is a huge way to boost his self-esteem and show him you want him and want to look good for him!
Has your regular sexual intimacy become closer to a quickie over the years? Even when we slow things down sometimes, they can still go pretty quickly. Lingerie is a great way to let us slow things down, enjoy the view and slowly unwrap the evening.
