We all know life can get crazy busy sometimes, but that doesn’t mean you should have to pencil in “sexy time” on your to-do list today. There’s nothing like a little spontaneity, and one great way to get things heated back up in your sex life is to start seeing even the most mundane tasks as opportunities for some sensual time!
Remember, just because you may think your schedule is just too hectic to cram a sex session in, doesn’t really mean it is, and here are a few helpful ways to get sex back on the menu.
Multitasking!
Yes, we know most of you have probably mastered the art of multitasking when it comes to work and getting things done around the house, but what about sex? It’s time to break the misconception that sex is an activity that demands your undivided attention. Listen up, it’s a lie! Try jumping in the shower together and getting a little dirty before you get clean. What better way to get through another arduous work dinner function than teasing each other under the table?
A kiss to remember.
When that quick peck before you run off to work becomes automatic, spice it up! Take a minute to savor the moment and nibble bottom lips, or playfully go for your partner’s neck instead. Keep them guessing and you’ll have their mind racing all day. Have some fun and throw in a quick grope; they’ll love it.
It doesn’t have to always be tit for tat.
When things become too routine, they can get boring or even completely forgettable. Sex should never be one of them. Mix up the dynamic, and next time you’re pressed for time, one of you get off and be on your way. Just make sure you let the other be on the receiving end at least some of the time.
Keep it light and playful.
Next time one of you is wrapped up in emails and phone calls, walk by and give your partner a flash. You’ll be amazed at how a flash of flesh can lift their spirits. You’ll definitely get their attention, and you’re naughty interjection will be keeping things whimsical.
Leave them wanting more…
There’s nothing more tantalizing than a sexual cliffhanger. Give each other just enough to get turned on but don’t reach climax. Letting things get to the edge and backing off will keep your minds on getting back to each other and the next opportunity to get your hands all over each other. Fooling around like this will also allow you to both enjoy every sensation since you won’t be focused on the finish line.
Life is busy, but a little spontaneity can go a long way.
The worst thing in a relationship is when sex becomes so rare or obligatory that it leads to a lack of desire all around. After a long day, sleep may seem extremely enticing, but sometimes we need to suck it up, splash some water on our face, and get under those sheets with enthusiasm. Showing some effort even when you’re exhausted will make your partner feel desired and it will keep the relationship hot, hot, hot!
