If you are unable to be with your partner during the mandated social distancing it can be difficult. It can be even more difficult, bordering on dangerous if you are socially distancing in a D/S relationship. If you have never really sexted your partner, we have some tips to help give them what they need until they can have you back again.

For the Dom

Make them show you they are okay

D: Go to the bathroom and send me a picture of your ass, now.

Give an order you would give in person

D: Do you want to do something right now to make me happy?

S: Yes.

D: I want you to jerk off right now and then I want you to tell me what you think of when you come.

Don’t forget to check their behavior

D: You’ve had such a smart mouth lately that I think you need to be gagged.

Send a gift

D: Did you get the package I sent you?

S: I did.

D: I want you to put them on and send me a selfie.

Sext their after care

D: I bought new massage oil. I want to lay you down in front of the fireplace and give you a full body massage. How does that sound to you?

For the Sub

You do not want to disappoint your Dom especially when all you have right now are your words, so be sure to give a little more than just, “I submit.” Or “Yes Sir/Ma’am.”

Get permission for your punishment

S: I’ve been feeling a bit naughty today and I think I need to be spanked / paddled as punishment.

Tell them what they do that you are missing most

S: I really want you to pull my hair while you’re fucking me.

S: I can’t wait for you to choke me while we’re kissing again.

Use your imagination and describe the scene, from what things might feel or smell like, how you are responding, the thoughts going through you head and how sexually turned on you are. There is no true replacement for you in their lives, but hopefully with a little creativity you will both survive this time apart. We will see you next week for more tips and tricks to help you master sexting.