Welcome back to our master sexting Mondays! We have shown you what to do, but we rarely talk about what NOT to do. To be a true sex texting master you should make sure you aren’t making any of these common sexting mistakes.
Foreplay Matters
Just like you wouldn’t dive in dry in the bedroom, you shouldn’t just start sexting out of the blue. Start slowly, tease and test your sexting partner before things get hot and heavy. Something like: “I can’t wait to see you and do with you all these things that are going on in my mind.” This way you’ll know if they are in the mood or position to play as well as increase the excitement for when you will next see each other.
Drunk Sexting
Drinking and getting turned on is pretty common, however sloppy sext messages that are full of misspellings, or confusing to read in general are just not sexy. If you’re feeling feisty but far apart a call is much better in this situation than a sexting session that fails because your partner is spending more time decoding your messages than enjoying the conversation.
Holding Back
Sexting is a great way to get to know each other sexually without the pressure of focusing on your physical performance. Be sure to engage, pay attention to what they say because they could be writing you a cheat sheet to exactly what they want in bed. Do the same for them, tell them what you want, what you enjoy, what you wish they would do more. The more involved in the sexting you are the better your sexting and sex life has the potential to be.
We will see you next week for more tips and tricks to help you master sexting!
